helo helo...
lately i been the receiving end of a particular qn which will turn it into a full blown conversational topic between me n my guy frenz as well as mr somebody. and the qn, no matter how u twist n turn it also comes back to the same main ting. the irony of it is dat, my guy frenz n mr somebody ask me dis qn at different ocasions bt within the same time frame.u ppl got sixth sense is it? *grrr...*
the qn: "Would a lady accept me with my low pay?"
here's my input to these qn ok, hopefully aft reading dis blog entry nobody ask me this qn again.im begining to sound like a tape recorder at times. *roll eyes* though i gave mr somebody a bit of a different ans when we had dis conversation.
when a lady say yes to u guys, she would more or less knoe how much u are earning each month.even when u dun tell them, we ladies can guess.so if the lady is a materialistic person, she would nt haf said yes to u. becoz she is looking for a guy who brings back hm big bucks.to some of u guys who haf been 2gether wif yr partner since sch days, shame on u for asking dis kind of qns now.coz when u ppl were in sch n was still getting pocket money frm yr parents or working part time she was already wif u.yr income which u get frm the part time job is nt much n nt even steady, if she can yes at dat time y cant she say yes now when u are bringing hm a steady income eventhough it is lower than wat u should get as a poly/uni grad.
to some of my frenz who haf a gf n asked me dis qn: pls go smack yrself for doubting yr gf in the first place.wat is impt is dat, if there are opportunities for u to upgrade yrself, then pls do so.
u guys are so lucky dat yr gf do nt knoe abt dis qn of yrs n u doubting yr love n sincerity in the relationship.if they eva finds out, u guys are eva gonna be so dead.then again...mayb i should tell them. haha...
all we ladies eva wanted (some nt all k) is somebody to love n pamper us.when i said pamper, i dun mean pamper us wif stuffs n branded goods.i mean pamper us wif love, care, concern, attention, respect and etc.if we wanna buy branded items, we can get them using our money.love n attention cannot b bought guys, so u hafta shower yr gf wif love n attention. *smiles*
hopefully dis blog entry will help u guys out. do go read dis particular bk which im currently reading.it was recommended by a reader when i was working at the lib abt a month ago.
title: For Richer, Not Poorer The Newlyweds' Financial Survial Guide
author: Deborah A. Wilburn
u ppl can find it in most lib under the business collections.happy reading it, coz its a good book.